Honda CBR 600RR Forum banner

What should I do?

  • so do i try changing her ways and start dating her eventually?

    Votes: 5 4.6%
  • Do I just stay with her to get laid and try finding someone else?

    Votes: 81 74.3%
  • or you suck and you had karma coming 2 u for what you've been doing 2 other chicks

    Votes: 23 21.1%

  • Total voters
    109
1 - 20 of 55 Posts

·
Registered
Joined
·
756 Posts
Discussion Starter #1 (Edited)
Ok so here is a little background from me. I'm that one guy that gets one night stands, hooks up with people at bars, lounges, clubs, parties, etc... I'm not bad looking or anything. So I've been doing this for a while and I'm tired of it and I want to get a gf.
So 2 weeks ago I meet this chick at a lounge and she wants me to go home with her and her friends(no, no 3somes or anything). The friends are kinda looking at me weird and they want to leave. My phone is out of battery and I'm not driving so I don't want to get stranded or have to deal with the friends. So I just borrow my bro's phone and get her number. I talked to her over text for 2 weeks and finally met up with her (i was in vegas in those 2 weeks). I really didnt' remember what she look like and she didnt remember what i looked like. We were both pretty drunk at the time. So anyways, I meet up with this chick and she is a 7 on my scale which is pretty good because my scale is definately one of the highest scales ever. 10 would be like a model that's not a model and that's just extremely hot and out of this world. So yeah she is hot, but she has some downs. She smokes weed a lot (she has 3 bongs and 2 pieces) and drinks pretty heavy(not an alcoholic). I smoked back in the day but not anymore and I'm not a big fan of it anymore. To me it seems is kinda weird that she was asking me to go home with her tha first night. When I met her we did the whole making out thing and i got down her pants did the whole finger thing for like 20 secs and told me to stop. I kinda gave her the impression that i was the one night kinda guy. So I was like whatever... I'm like so what do u think of me and she says im hot and all this stuff. I'm like so what do you think of us... she is like we can be friends, but i know friends like this is just for a mean time til someone starts hating it. so I'm like what if we just go out on dates and she says ok. Since I gave her a bad impression about the one night thing I'm like i wont do anything with you for a whole month. But now shes is like flirting with me and talking about all this sex stuff. She kinda gave me the impression that she was a player(like me back in the day)... I really like her personality and looks... so do i try changing her ways and start dating her eventually? or just hang out with her til she gives it up and just hang out with her because of it and try finding someone else? or you suck and you had karma coming to you for doing one night stands and messing around with chicks? so now after this whole book i just wrote pick a thing from the poll
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
105 Posts
its really late and i am not sure if i read it right and u said something about a poll i didnt see one to vote on -- but she doesnt really seem like girlfriend material -- so i would probably have my fun then move on -- like i said its late and i might be misinterperting what u r wiritng but that is what i think
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
3,375 Posts
I know that but it just kinda happened because i was at that bar and I just switched over to not do one night stands type of things anymore...
Shes obviously a party girl man, they are put on earth for us to smash, thats about it... a couple years down the line, a few ex-husbands and a couple bastard children and she'll calm down though.
 

·
Hitz eit from z back
Joined
·
5,357 Posts
Shes obviously a party girl man, they are put on earth for us to smash, thats about it... a couple years down the line, a few ex-husbands and a couple bastard children and she'll calm down though.
+107649067047. dude just tag her a couple times and look for someone else. Not worth putting your time into a chick if shes not what your looking for to begin with. From the sounds of it you looking to settle down a bit while this chick still wants to party. IMO
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
520 Posts
Move along & forget her. . .

Not a good way to start a relationship that you want to last more than a few months.

It does sound like you are ready to settle down a bit so don't look at the clubs or bars! Look at Bike Nights & Bike events to find a hot chick that rides instead.
 

·
C.F.A. member **New Joyzeeeeeee Racer YAAAA BOY
Joined
·
1,726 Posts
Dude have your fun and keep your options open. There's no love involved in this one, just enjoy the ride. She sounds like she'd be a hell of a lotta fun in the sack!
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
138 Posts
Clubs are not the place to find a decent girl. Or should i say its like looking for a needle in a haystack. You can find friends in the clubs though. If you were looking for a chick with her mind in the right place, try looking in the right areas like: libaries, parks etc. I suggest you just chill with this girl and not look for anything serious out of it cos it will lead nowhere. Always remember this, you can't change people. They are who they are. They might change for a little while but the slightest thing will push them back to where they were. Except they intend to change on their own.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
847 Posts
Dude, I was in the exact situation when I was back in my days. All I can say is think of it from your point of view back then. Was there any chance that a girl was really going to change you. Not worth your effort. You should hit it and quit it. Then start looking in better places for girls. That is what I did and it has worked out great for me.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
119 Posts
Are you sure your not with my ex, she was a bitch. If things get crazy, run man! RUN! **** her and see where it goes worst comes to worst you have to try again. I went through a bunch of girls before I found my good girl.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
131 Posts
If you'd spend this much time to write that much about this gal and tell us all these things... I can only recommend one thing...

RUN far far away. Did you READ what you wrote? You can bash your head for as long as you want, you're NEVER going to change her. It sounds like there are more things that you DON'T like than things that you DO like... no piece of a$$ is THAT good or worth that much trouble. Why torture yourself?
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
2,452 Posts
You are like me. no joke. My ex-girlfriend, i met her at a club and we started talking. next time we met, she took my blazer that i wore so we can meet up next time. we met next time and we were doing fantastic. i started going out with her after meeting her 3 times. each event was only 20 min long. She said I was different and all. I'm the good guy and she was the bad girl. go to clubbing dropping extacy. however, i thought i would change her. nope it didn't work. girls that you can get in one night is def no no for relationship. i played game with her while i was going out with her. i gave her too much stress and she's too immature for me. she needs too much attention and she got lot of guys. so it didnt work out. trust me, in a relationship, you do not want a girl that smokes pot and drink all the time. esp if you took that girl one night stand? than hell no. she will do the same. your not special. you are like another guy that meet up at a club. i say play around with her and leave her. or even best, make her sex partner.
 
1 - 20 of 55 Posts
Top