No dude, I wasn't being sarcastic. I originally posted "possibly to the ignition coil" but then I looked and the ignition coil connectors are white, so I edited my post. My bad. I'll try to look into it a little more.
If I'm right, you mean grey w/black stripe and black w/white stripe. I'm guessing you'r in Cali or have a Cali bike, then it goes to the Purge control soleniod valve.
I don't have a Cali bike, so I don't know where to tell you to start looking for the other connector. I can be Captain Obvious and say, " somewhere within the reach of the wires " The connector you're looking for does have the same color wires. Hope I helped at least a little.