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View Poll Results: You & your Spouse; What is more important?
Sexual/Intimate relationship? 20 19.80%
Happy being best friends, doing everything together? 27 26.73%
Neither, I do not like him/her 7 6.93%
A little bit of one and allot of another? 47 46.53%
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Poll:You & your spouse, what is more important?

You & your spouse or girlfriend, what is more important?

Lets have a heart to heart with your answers please. My wife and I are in a discussion over this and your responses will matter. We are at a crossing point after being together for 13 years.

You guys & gals are our therapist.

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If you ask me = the sex.

If you ask her = my money.

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i dunno. being the best of friends leads to one hell of a sexual/intimate relationship!
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i dunno. being the best of friends leads to one hell of a sexual/intimate relationship!
Not always true. My g/f and I are really good friends. We like all of the same things, and do almost everything together, etc. However, the problem comes in that I want sex just about constantly, and she's happy with almost never having sex. Our sex life has been once a month for a few years now, and it's honestly killing our relationship more each day. Anyone out there that starts letting things go, even though you can see it's headed in a bad direction, don't let it happen. Don't be like me and just let it slide or you'll be stuck like me.
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If you ask her = my money.
hahahaha... so very true.

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I believe that a healthy relationship encompases both a great sexual/intimate relationship coupled with being best friends and doing everything together. I have been with my fiance for three years, and I can honestly say I think she is my best friend in the entire world. She would most definatly say the same about me. And we both realize that our best friend relationship adds to the quality of our sex life. I think you need to have both to have a lasting relationship.
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it's like having a baby........all baby all the time
the only time i have is when i race around the track and at that she's only 1.3 miles away (goes with me)
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I don't have a spouse, I have a g/f... so I thought I'd try to skew the results a little bit.

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i dunno. being the best of friends leads to one hell of a sexual/intimate relationship!
This is true which is why I voted for it.

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You & your spouse or girlfriend, what is more important?

Lets have a heart to heart with your answers please. My wife and I are in a discussion over this and your responses will matter. We are at a crossing point after being together for 13 years.

You guys & gals are our therapist.

Thanks in advance...
Alright, well I voted for a healthy sexual relationship. The way I see it, we'll always be best friends, and I love her to death. However, if we don't have sex, it wears on me and I get very irritable. This in turn turns me into an *******, making me say things I normally wouldn't. Its one of those deals where sex is a bigger deal to me, and that bugs me because it wasn't always like that.

Then, when she wants sex, I'm supposed to jump through hoops for her. Which of course I do everytime, even though sometimes I try to hold out to prove a point to her, but I never can. Its just not right man.

I'm VERY worried that once she has the baby, I'm doomed......

Tell your wife that without a balance between friendship and sex, NO marriage/relationship will work out.
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I voted for best friends and doing "almost" everything together. As long as we maintain a true friendship, open communication, and mutual interests, everything else just kind of falls into place. She enjoys motorcycles as much as I do and it genuinely gives her joy to see me happy doing the things I love to do. She is focused on getting us a bigger house before she purchases a motorcycle, so she enjoys going to track days, and races. We vacation in places that we mutually enjoy, and I always seek her opinion before I do something that is going to affect the both of us, whether I do it or not. We have been together for five years now, married since October, 2005. Everyone asks me "How is married life treating you?" I always tell em' the same thing. We had a great relationship before we got married, and it has only gotten better. Hope that helps you.
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women are insane i vote for i dont like her cauze they are all crazy ...can i get a bump on that or what
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let me rephrase that not all women just the ones i run across.
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relationships end with out passionate sex, a relatioship with out heart is just roomates

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relationships end with out passionate sex, a relatioship with out heart is just roomates
very well put!
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if you ask her = me not being an *******.
if you ask me = her losing some lbs.

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sex is important. that having been said, its overrated. i think any random guy could have a great sexual relationship with Jenna Jameson, but how many people would actually MARRY her?

the worst mistake people make is confusing sex and love. getting married to get some is a horrible mistake. there are 10,000 ways to sabotage a marriage, and cheating is the quickest. but everyone i know who has cheated didn't do it because they weren't happy with thier sex life at home. it ALWAYS went deeper than that. so sex a little bit, freindship alot.
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if you ask her = me not being an *******.
if you ask me = her losing some lbs.
lol what a ****, i bet you arnt getting any.
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it's like having a baby........all baby all the time
the only time i have is when i race around the track and at that she's only 1.3 miles away (goes with me)
True...reminds me of that shirt with the pic of the racer that says...

And as I shifted into 6th I couldn't remember a thing she said!
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